Internet porn is ruining your relationship: XXX marks

Internet porn is ruining your relationship: XXX marks :I was talking with a colleague recently discovered that only a close friend of his is the female date rape. As he struggled to understand what happened, and asked: "How can we help women, and feelings of men to take more seriously?" It's a question I think almost every day - or Is it because of another girl at school that I work in the public sector has a history of sexual abuse, because Brett Favre gets caught up in the so-called trivial Sexting scandal or identified because women's bodies turn on the beach in Long Island .
This holiday season, we have more important things to talk about who will win the Super Bowl. We have to learn how to make the world safer for women. May begin with the addition of "porn" does not list the resolution on the new year.
By the fake, and hear me.
While pornography has always been around, and exploded with the advent of the Internet. Days access to pornography through magazines, which is forbidden and pay-per-view movies or videos hidden behind the curtains look like a grain of ancient history. We always take for granted as part of the cultural background of our world, the late night talk show hosts can barely joke on the Internet without throwing in with a smirk, but is the source of pornography. (Here Jay Leno: "New York Gov. David Paterson wants the state 15 billion U.S. dollars budget deficit to resolve Internet porn tax men, you know what it means to have a solution to the recession, and between your hands ..?")
But behind these statements densensitization normal growing industry that feeds $ 13000000000 twisted version of sex in female sexuality, which is exclusively the needs of men for the service. This has become a unified description of the narrow sex in pornography, and promotes, in many cases, viewers in the 75000000 period.
And look at and biting a profound impact on how real-world interaction of men and women.
Maybe this seems like such a statement and the old women - the kind of hip thing women say no more. However, the conventional wisdom which claims that pornography is harmless really little more than a dangerous illusion, peddled by those who stand and profit.
For example, he found a researcher at the University of California, the media and experts in child pornography Academy Neil Malamuth view that pornography can have an impact on people and destabilize the lead to violence against women, and some risk factors exist. The mixed attitude towards sex and run by the authority on women.
This is not just an abstract for me. Over the past six years, I've been having conversations about healthy relationships with the City of New York students in high school - and those risk factors, mainly the total up all of them worked with his son's work. In the classroom a lot of discussion, and he told me that the boys from a very early age, and they learned that the "real" men and sex is an aggressive invasion of women's bodies and scored a lot of them as you can. While these ideas around for a long time, and more socially punishable by now more than ever.